Meaning of life
In my childhood, watching the sun set every day, I would think Time keeps passing… . Where are we all going? What are we living for? Why do all the things in this world exist?” I couldn’t stop thinking about it.
So, from childhood, to find the answers, I went to church and went to temple. I read and studied various scriptures and books. I could know that they were good and great stories, but there was no way to live like those stories.
Sometimes I became obsessed with human mind, and hated people who loved. I felt cliché amid repeated human joys and sorrows. The most frustrating among them was the fact that even though my body and mind are mine, I can’t control my mind.
So, after I became an adult, I tried to find my own way to get out of the obsessed human mind while listening to music or traveling. They gave me a short time happiness but there was no fundamental solution.
Then, by chance, an art professor I met in Australia introduced me to participate in University Student Camp of Maum Meditation.
My meditation started like that… Wiping away the dirt of my mind that had covered me, I encountered the true self. Of course, it took patience, time, and effort. However, the method was specific and clear, and the more I subtracted, the more I wanted to do it all the way to the end, so I meditated very hard.
Miraculously I felt like I was born again. It was like coming out of the water for the first time and breathing properly. I now feel grateful not for any particular reasons or conditions, but just naturally feel grateful for this world and everything around me.
I think everyone should practice this meditation. Regardless of language, race, religion, culture, gender, and age, anyone can do it, and I hope to share this happiness with everyone
My stubbornness became weaker and My body became healthier.
Let’s talk about what I felt while doing this meditation.
In my daily life or at work, I was quite stubborn and my argument was strong. People around me were struggling because of me, and I was also hard because of me, but no matter how hard I tried to change, it didn’t change. Then one day, when I saw this meditation promotion on the street, I accidentally started meditating. It wasn’t easy to meditate because of strong stubbornness, but I took a little time to meditate because I thought that it should change. I felt like I had a difficult time, such as a day to sleep because I wasn’t there, a day because I didn’t like the tone or style of the person who teaches meditation, or a day when a friend asked for a drink and then just went
As I meditated little by little like this, I started to see from the people around me that I was changing little by little. People at work where I worked told me that I started to laugh little by little, wrinkles on my face spread out, and it seemed to listen to others’ opinions. In fact, what I felt about myself by then was that my old insomnia disappeared, I had a good night’s sleep, and for a long time My skin itching was gone and my skin started to feel better. He said he knew if he was doing entertainment…
Little by little like this, I started to practice Lee meditation. I started to get better, work well, sleep well, and get sick, so I have fun to meditate, and my daily life started to be happy. Most of all, many thoughts disappeared, so when I was working, I was only able to work, when I was eating, I was only eating, and vague worries about the future disappeared. I found out that people are thinking a lot more often than not.
These positive little things changed me little by little, and now I am the president of a company, and I have quite a lot of employees. This meditation is not a religion. There are a lot of meditations in the world, but I think this meditation is the only meditation that is simple and easy to change anywhere, regardless of age. If you have the same problems I had, do not hesitate to try this meditation right away!!
Beyond my knowledge
When I first started this meditation- I had no intention of completing until the end- I was only interested because I felt better after each session- Originally- I joined because I felt something missing in my life- i had a quite good life by most standards- an apartment, a great job and a fufilling relationship- but i did not have something that allowed me to be happy at all moments- I was always consumed by work- greed- or jealousy- not even realizing it- i was living somewhere other than the world that i lived in. I lived in my mind- then after meditating for many years i was able to realize all the ways of the world and live well with others- this meditation can be life changing and there is a simple method- step by step and very scientific- give it a go today and stay until the end!
This meditation is? “simple and so powerful”
Before meditation, the life I have lived from the outside looked good. Perhaps to the eyes of the people around me I was happy and confident with family, school and work but I was very worried and always felt pressured within. I always had this need to please everyone and was obsessed about maintaining an image for a good person in front of others. I was always hiding behind my fake smiles and heavy make-up, covering myself up to be perfectly good. Through the meditation I realized that this was all because I was so worried about how the world saw me. I was so worried that I never wore white socks or bright colors because people could then see how dirty my feet were. I felt as if the world was judging me for every little thing about me. My insecurities always overwhelmed me that I was haunted with insomnia.
However, reflecting back at my life, the meditation has really helped me see that I was only living inside this bubble. I was stuck inside a place where I cared only about my self-centered views and comparing myself and wanted to become better with my own standards that I had made to myself. Now that I look back at myself, I was so ridiculous! Riddling myself with so many worries.
I have done the meditation from level 2 in Korea, so I have not yet met people that know of the old me. However, even the people here say that from the time I’ve been here that I look brighter. I see my own change too, my insomnia is gone and I dance around in whatever colored socks, without makeup. When I no longer rely on the opinion of others, I feel much stronger and free. The greatest gift the mediation has allowed me is to allow me to see that the world does not spin around me. I have been living only for myself. For me, the greatest part of this meditation is to see reality, the true world, outside of my bubble.
You start to see yourself, the way you are in all aspects of your life
The cool thing about this meditation method is that it has this ability to show you who you are from a much bigger perspective than yourself. It is really hard to see yourself as yourself, so the method has this way of showing yourself from a bigger perspective. Then you get to reflect on yourself on how you actually are and you see things in yourself. And I saw things in myself that I did not realize that I had before the method. I think that is one of the biggest strength of this meditation. Speaking from my own experience, I found it really hard to bring big changes within myself but this method has helped me get rid of my habits and useless negative thoughts.
I am definitely happier now and also just more relaxed. I feel better within myself and that is the best way to define happiness for me. Also, I am more focused. I mean I work with computers and it is important to have patience and really be able to focus throughout the day. I work with my head the whole day, thus it is so important to be able to be relaxed within myself. Not always trying to move, not always thinking about something else, just staying put; and the meditation has definitely helped me with that.
The meditation has also improved me as a husband and father. One problem that I think in many relationships I find is; you have this expectation of the other to give you something the whole time. You want to get something from that person. And I think the meditation has changed that perspective for me and my wife. It is now more about putting in the work yourself without underlying expectations for one another. Also, this meditation has changed the way I see my children. I seem them more as the way they are than I did before as a parent and as a father. There was a certain bias that came with the strong attachment that I had for my children. Getting rid of that, I think you start to see your family in a more realistic way. This is also good for the kids, because they feel that and they feel actually more relaxed around me.
The difference in my life … can be described with one word: Gratitude.
I don’t have any dramatic life story to tell. From the outside, my life looks quite ordinary. I grew up in a safe environment in a suburb in the outskirts of Stockholm. I had friends, a Nintendo video game and everything a kid could wish for. My family was not religious and relatively open-minded, so I was free to make my own life decisions. I graduated from university and got a job at an IT company and thought I would be happy but, in my mind, I was never truly happy. Every time I achieved something that I wanted, I just wanted something else, something more. I was constantly stuck in my thoughts with my wandering mind. I was always wondering, stuck in my own thoughts, asking myself why I had so many thoughts in my head. I tried so many different things to find an answer but everything I tried only gave me a temporary release.
Though very quickly I realized by doing this meditation that this thinking was about myself and the reason that I think so much and why I was so stressed was because I was caring only about myself. For me, I used to carry things that were unnecessary. I knew that ruminations were unnecessary and bad for me but I didn’t want to nor know how to let go. However, through this meditation method I learnt how to truly let go of the worries and thoughts and to me that is true relief.
Now, there is a huge difference between the me before and the me now. Before, I needed so many things in life to be happy. I needed my hobby and I needed to have certain people in my life. I thought I needed a lot of things. Now I have no worries about the future so with this mind I can just live and the universe will take care of things for me. Now I have also learned that when I sincerely care about others more than myself my stress fades away and I now know how to truly contribute to the world. The difference between my life before and after the meditation can be described with one word: Gratitude.
I feel so much gratitude for this meditation, for being able to let go, and for being able to confirm with my mind that I am fundamentally one with everything around me.
Be the change you want to see in the world
I think when I was born I chose 100% heart and zero head. I love people and love to help them. That has been part of my life for a long time and even the success in my career comes from it. However there came a point in my life where I sought for ways to help others but drove myself insane because I could not find a way to help the other. Once, one of my family members was suffering from depression. There was nothing that I could do to help and knowing that I couldn’t help that person brought me to an even deeper depression. However, once I started the meditation, I noticed a change in me. I realized that only I can change myself and only I can help myself. It was no longer about my need to help and improve others but it was more about being an example to the people who require the help. I found a way to show true compassion and love to others by helping myself. Everything I do and want to say in a short version is that ‘live by example and be the chance you want to see in the world.’
When I started the meditation in the U.S., my career grew a lot faster. People were nicknaming me as a “superstar” and I was awarded a title as the ‘Top 5 Person’ within my industry with a promotion of an executive VP. Though my career was successful I realized that my job made me so busy. I knew there were a lot of opportunities for me to grow through the meditation and I knew to gain something I needed to sacrifice something. Thus with a bold decision, I chose to go to Korea to invest in myself and it was not just a gold mine, but a diamond mine. I can see that most people who want to try the meditation are just so busy with their lives, but I wish they take a moment to invest in themselves to find what is that they truly want in their lives. For me, I just love who I am inside right now. The language and food was very different in Korea but it is nothing compared to the depth of the gratitude I have for the method because it has changed my whole entire life. Though the past 4 months of meditation in Korea, I was able get over my traumatic experiences in my past, conquer my phobias, and be free from the health conditions that has been following me all life. Many people tell me that I’ve changed a lot and tell me that I look brighter and younger.
At this point, my heart is full of joy and love and gratitude. So with this gratitude that is inside, I want to give this out to other people now, by being an example.